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The following essay was written by Karen Walrond of Chookooloonks.
Ah, love. I remember what “love� used to mean. Back in the olden days, about 2 years B.C. (“Before Child�), for my husband and I “love� used to mean spending all day in bed. Getting drunk on a bottle of port in front of a roaring fire late into the evening. Leaping around the room and dancing naked and to “The Humpty Dance� blaring from stereo speakers in the middle of the night (DO. NOT. ASK.) Love was all about spontaneity. And romance. And just-the-two-of-us.
Then Alex came.
Don’t get me wrong: having our daughter in our lives is nothing short of a blessing. (And, come to think of it, a bloody miracle. Who would’ve thought that an adoption agency would place a newborn infant with a couple who dance naked to The Humpty Dance�? Man, they’ll let anyone be a parent. I’m just sayin’.) It’s just that when children come along, the definition of “love� changes. Love has a whole new meaning.
For example, these days, in our house, love is:
Our daughter looking at either of us, and announcing “No like it,� while spitting masticated God-knows-what into our hands. And we have no problem accepting it.
- Alex, stalling finishing her dinner, by shrieking “MORE SQUEEZE!!!� at either of us, in the hope that by us giving her a hug (“squeeze�), we’ll forget that we’re in the process of making her eat all her peas.
- The pitter-patter of tiny feet coming into our room in the middle of the night, asking to crawl into bed with us.
- Discovering those same feet aren’t actually as tiny as previously thought, since the body attached to those feet has decided to sleep perpendicularly to the rest of people sleeping in said bed, and those feet are actually now permanently embedded in my cheekbone.
- My husband and I touching ankles beneath said perpendicular sleeping form lying between us, and calling such contact “intimacy.�
- Stolen kisses and gropes while the kid is watching “Madagascar.�
- My husband and I sharing a startled smile at a new phrase or word that comes out of our daughter’s mouth, like “WOW! LOOK AT THAT!� or “Mummy, come here NOW!� or, my personal favourite, “Daddy is a goober.�
- Alex rolling over in the middle of the night and murmuring “I lahve you, Mummy. I lahve you, Daddy,� before dropping back off to sleep.
Yup, love has certainly changed a lot around these parts.
Thank God.
© Karen Walrond 2006, author of Chookooloonks
http://www.chookooloonks.com/chookooloonks
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Comments
You certainly have a wonderful love for life. What a lucky child you have!
Posted by: Karin | February 13, 2006 9:50 AM
Aren't kids grand!!!!!!!
Posted by: Debby | February 13, 2006 10:26 AM
The Naked Humpty Dance? Nice!
Posted by: Niihaus | February 13, 2006 3:33 PM
Every word. True. Just change Alex to Nathan. And female to male... and well, you could almost say we share the same version of love in our house. :-)
Posted by: Bethany | February 13, 2006 3:33 PM
The Humpty dance. That is priceless.
I have always felt that the most important moments in life are in the day to day. You illustrate that well in your description of love. So right....
Posted by: Meghan | February 13, 2006 3:52 PM
I totally know what you mean about the ankle touching intimacy...except with us it's feet. It's like our little sercret
Posted by: courtney | February 13, 2006 11:57 PM
Yes, Yes, Yes, I LOVE THIS post. Ankle touching=intimacy. YES YES YES...sooo true.
Posted by: tanyetta | February 14, 2006 12:10 PM
That was a wonderful piece!
And yes, God has blessed us with that same wonderful "Love" in our household ;)
Posted by: Lorelei | April 3, 2006 9:51 PM