After the passionate response to our panel on mommyblogging at BlogHer 2005, we left determined to change the negative perceptions of the label we simply cannot avoid.
Mommybloggers.com is the outgrowth of that motivation.
Over the last year, we've seen an explosion of fantastic mother writers, and we've talked candidly with many of them. We've introduced our readers to writers from a variety of backgrounds. As we approach our first anniversary, we are committed to introducing more writers, and exposing more diversity in the mommyblogging community.
One thing that hasn't changed: there is still a great deal of hatred for the term, both inside and outside of the genre. This year's wonderful panel - featuring Mir of Woulda Coulda Shoulda, Tracey of Sweetney.com, Alice of Finslippy and Marrit of Baldo took on the term, the identity and fielded questions about mommyblogging and money.
We heard several times that 2006 was the Year of the Mommybloggers. As a community, we were certainly recognized and talked about. Last year, we were regarded as fluff writers. This year, we became a force to be reckoned with, although we did overhear conversations wondering how a bunch of fluff writers could have become so marketable. Is increased visibility benefiting us, or merely driving an us-vs.-them wedge into the community of women bloggers?
Some of us party like rock stars and swear like sailors. This is always mentioned with a slightly awed tone - mothers don't act like that. Or do they? We've read how mommybloggers stand in happy, chattering cliques and make ourselves difficult to approach. We've read about the reputation mommybloggers have for running in a pack, and for vigorously defending our own, should they come under attack. We're hard-pressed to see this as a negative. This is far from unusual in the blogosphere. Yet we also know that our community is prone to attacking each other over everything from body image to breastfeeding. We are far from united, and while we would love to end all personal attacks, we support respectful discourse and debate on blogs.
We are lucky to be one of the charter members of BlogHer's ad network. BlogHer's vision for a targeted ad network - featuring amazing blogs written by women - needed guinea pigs. We were excited to open our templates and participate as BlogHer put the final touches on the network. The power of women bloggers, and the diversity of the audience we reach is astounding and infinitely exciting to advertisers. We are excited to see the growth of the entire network as additional categories and targeted ads come on line.
After WoolfCamp Spring 2006, Grace Davis was determined to bring professional, affordable childcare to BlogHer 2006. The childcare committee did a fantastic job, and Grace’s vision of a warm, accommodating, safe and professional childcare was a tremendous success. We know that other conferences will look to BlogHer as an example of how to better accommodate attendees with children. Thank you, Grace.
While we understand the backlash from some attendees towards receiving a bib, condom, or a tee-shirt in the wrong size - we're sad that those unwanted items were thrown away instead of collected to be donated to a women's shelter or other organization that could have benefited. Next year, we hope to have a collection system in place to help facilitate that option, for women who don't welcome those types of handouts.
So, where do we go from here? We are still working to change the one-size-fits-all nature of the mommyblogging label. While babies and poop and diapers are an occasional topic, there are hundreds of self-identifying mommybloggers who are eloquent and forthright on subjects both political and personal. We look forward to expanding the dialog and finding ways to increase the cooperation and respect between all women, writing in all genres, whether they are mothers or not.